The
happiest people are the most generous and thankful people. I’ve never met a generous person who was
angry and depressed.
I
recently learned an important lesson of thankfulness from my 9th
grade son, Joel 600 miles from home. It
was during his spring break that we decided to serve God in Mexicali,
Mexico. Over the 10 days of spring
break, we saw people who lived in “homes” made out of trash bags, tarps, milk
crates, pallets and anything else the residents could find for shelter. Our mission was to build 14 homes for
families and do vacation Bible schools for children.
During
our time there, we slept in tents with no running water. At night the cold weather made it hard to
sleep for more than a couple hours at a time.
There were no showers for 10 days.
I don’t know if the feeling of being sticky and sweaty was worse than
the smell of others who were shower deprived.
I was on
the kitchen crew feeding 786 people for 3 meals each day. So, I would rise at 3:30 am to prepare
breakfast for the starving builders and those ministering to the area
children. After breakfast, we would
clean up and begin preparing lunch and after lunch clean up, we would begin
preparing dinner to eventually meet my sleeping bag at 9:30pm.
However,
on our third day in Mexicali, something changed. That day, I spoke to my wife who told me that
Joel’s basketball team had just won their basketball tournament. I knew he would be eager to hear the good
news, so after dinner that evening, I ran over to him and shared the good
news. He responded, “Dad, you should
have seen the kids’ faces when we put up the walls of their new house. They were running around their new home, saying
words I couldn’t understand, but they were sure excited!” I said, “But, Joel, your team won the
championship by 3 points in the last minute of the game. Aren’t you
excited?” He responded, “After the
mother saw what we did for her and how excited her kids were, she put her hands
in the air and danced in a circle saying, ‘This is my house from heaven!’ And dad, that house was only a little bigger
than my bedroom!”
That made
me stop to think. Maybe I needed an
attitude adjustment and a new focus. Instead of missing my physical comforts I
needed to focus on those our team was serving.
Maybe I needed to be more grateful.
They had far less than me, but were thankful. I would soon be leaving, but those in
Mexicali would still live there without the comforts I had grown accustomed
to. Then I thought about what Joel was
learning and how he was impacted. I try
to teach him to be thankful and that there are more important things than
basketball, but God through this trip taught him this lesson.
I
encourage you to join your church’s missions trip this year. I don’t know what God will teach you, but it
will be exactly what you will need. You
will see God work in ways you never anticipated and you’ll realize that serving
God is life’s greatest adventure.
If your church isn’t doing a missions trip this
year GHC will be leading one, serving a church who needs help in an evangelism
effort to repair its physical plant. We
will provide more information in the weeks to come, but if you are interested
in using your trade skills or helping skills contact me at 916-789-2518 or bennett5000@aol.com